I have been on vacation in South Carolina this week. The weather has been absolutely perfect and I love just relaxing on the beach. My husband and son always golf, which is fine with me because then I don’t have to worry about them complaining about being bored on the beach. This year, however, I felt like I wanted to give golf a try because I had a little FOMO (fear of missing out) going on.
My husband and son were taking a lesson so I asked my husband to sign me up too. Why not?? As the day of the lesson came closer, I wanted to cancel it. I thought my time would be better spent on the beach. Cancellation fees would probably apply so I bit the bullet and went to the lesson. I am really glad that I did. My instructor Ali was awesome; she was very supportive, down-to-Earth, and easy going. She gave me a lot of great tips and I felt really good about myself when I left the lesson. The Steve Dresser Golf Academy is one of the best in the Myrtle Beach area. My husband and son also learned a lot in their advanced lessons and club fittings.
At home, I had been to the driving range a total of ONE time before my lesson. I had taken other lessons years and years ago. The thought of actually playing a round of golf scared me. I didn’t think I had enough skill to get out there. Well, I decided that there was no time like the present to give it a try. I am in one of the most popular golf locations in the US and there are golfers of all levels getting out there every day.
There is a par 3 course, Tupelo Bay, which is not far from the condo we are staying in. My husband said it was only 9 holes and I wouldn’t need to hit it very far, being that it was a par 3. Again, I figured we’re here in one of the largest golf meccas so no time like the present to give it a try. Since the par 3 was just “mini golf on steroids”, we decided to do the executive course, which was a par 3 and 4 course. Nerves set in as we pulled up to the first hole, but when I saw others who hit the ball like me, I felt a lot better. I didn’t do great, but I hit the ball and I have my first round 9 holes under my belt. I, again, felt pretty good about myself walking off that course.
Golf is on the television all the time at my house. I have been to PGA tournaments. I hear my husband and son say how much you need to practice and how aggravating it can be. So why do I want to get into this aggravating yet fulfilling hobby? It is something we can do as a family and I can go out with friends who golf. When I posted that I was taking a lesson on Facebook, a friend commented that she was in a beginner league at home and why don’t I join? I told her ABSOLUTELY. She said it was a lot of fun and a lot of laughs. I may not improve my game, but fun and laughing are good for the soul.
So next step is getting some gear and just getting out there and doing it. I am proud of myself because I am taking on a challenge of learning something completely new to me. I have been writing a lot lately about my yoga journey and mindfulness, and this post may seem out of place. However, I feel that taking on this challenge and being present in the moment of just concentrating on hitting the ball is just another way to be mindful. Not letting every day worries and cares get in the way of my present purpose.
What is a challenge that you have taken on that has become a success for you??